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You May Not Know Your Partner's True Self: Understanding Avoidant Attachment in Relationships
Do you really know your partner's secret heart? If you're in a relationship with someone with an avoidant attachment style, it may take about a year to uncover his or her genuine thoughts and feelings. Everything before this period is often clouded by temporary neurotransmitters, false feelings and mutual games. I'm Adam Lane Smith, the attachment specialist. With years of experience as a licensed marriage and family therapist and now as a coach specializing in attachment theory, I have helped countless couples navigate the complexities of avoidant attachment.
In today's video I dive deep into how avoidant individuals live in their relationships. Over my decade-long career, I've heard their secrets, helped them restore their ability to bond, and analyzed the repeated patterns in every avoidant person I work with. I'll reveal why the first year with an avoidant partner is often based on false connections and why most relationships tend to fall apart around this time.
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Main points covered:
The Fake First Year: Understand why the first year in a relationship with an avoidant partner is often based on temporary connections and what you can do to overcome this phase.
The role of neurotransmitters: Learn about novel dopamine and oxytocin bonds and how they affect avoidant partners in different ways.
Four Essential Approaches: Discover the four most important things you need to do in your first year to build a secure, lasting relationship with an avoidant partner.
Building trust: Building and maintaining trust is crucial. Find out how consistency, reliability and clear communication can help.
Testing the Waters: Navigate the initial stages of testing and how to remain patient and supportive.
Addressing Fear of Engulfment: Help your partner maintain their independence while fostering a deep, secure bond.
Creating a secure attachment base: Over time, develop relationship dynamics that change an avoidant partner's attachment style for the better.
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If you liked this video, I recommend you check out this video on avoidant attachment: https://youtu.be/Sv9ndVQN024
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If you've been having trouble dating or getting married and are worried that you're not good enough, worry no more. Attachment specialist Adam Lane Smith has written this guide to show you how to stop fearing abandonment and start building healthy relationships. Through his proven step-by-step approach to attachment recovery, Adam teaches you what people really want from you, how to give and receive love without fear, what red flags to avoid, and how to build lifelong love with a partner. you trust.
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Chapters:
00:00:00 – False connection in the first year of a relationship
00:02:05 – The dopamine cliff and oxytocin binding
00:04:15 – Building trust with avoidant partners
00:06:16 – Building trust with avoidant people
00:08:25 – Building trust with avoidant people
00:10:29 – The first year as a testing ground
00:12:29 – Building boundaries and expectations in relationships
00:14:26 – Building secure attachment
00:16:33 – How to love an avoidant man
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